“We argue about money every month. How do we talk about it without it becoming a fight?”
A sample reply might suggest choosing a calm moment, naming shared goals first, and agreeing one small change at a time.
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Culture & Heritage
For generations, Ssengas have played an important role in Baganda family life, passing on knowledge about relationships, adulthood and marriage.
But who is a Ssenga, what did she traditionally teach, and how is her role changing today?
Explore the history, responsibilities and changing meaning of this tradition, from the trusted paternal aunt to the modern relationship adviser.

From a trusted family aunt to a modern relationship adviser, the Ssenga tradition offers a fascinating window into how culture, family and women’s roles are changing in Uganda.
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“We argue about money every month. How do we talk about it without it becoming a fight?”
A sample reply might suggest choosing a calm moment, naming shared goals first, and agreeing one small change at a time.
“My in-laws expect us to visit every weekend. How do I set a boundary respectfully?”
A sample reply might talk about honouring elders while agreeing, as a couple, what is realistic — and saying it together.
“What should I know before my partner's family visits mine for the first time?”
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